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A641.1.3.RB – What is Great Leadership?

            I started to work at the age of fifteen years old. Since, I have experienced an array of leadership personalities. Some fortunately, left a great impact in my life while others, not so much. If I were to think of a leader whom I have worked with and brought out the best in myself, that would be my manager at Dick’s Sporting Goods, John Case. At worked as a Customer Service Specialist for over a year. Although this job was meant to be momentary until I get a better job, it turned out to be the best experience I could have asked for. From the moment he hired me, the way he spoke, and his ideals were just the kind of leader I needed in my life. I clearly remember him saying that he needed someone who is passionate about their work and willing to change the morale of the store. He needed some who was going to inspire others into making a better job. He believed in second opportunities and never failed to hear others before attempting to judge people. More importantly, he was kind, yet firm in his decisions. All my coworkers then, had an immense respect for this man. Not only was he a great leader but he was looking for leaders to take over the company’s tasks. Therefore, if I were asked again to work for him, without a doubt I would do it.

            On the other hand, I have also had the misfortune of dealing with a leader was the complete opposite of what a leader should be. A couple of years ago, when I was not sure that I wanted to go to medical school, I worked for a law firm. To begin with, the attorney left me at the mercy of a senior paralegal who made my life at work miserably. When they hired me, I had explained to them that I had not worked as a paralegal in about two years, and that I was going to need training in order to refresh my memory and they all approved. Nevertheless, three weeks into the job, Coraly, the paralegal made feel as I was bothering every time I had a question. Additionally, I felt, as she was micromanaging me at everything I did. At that time, we shared an office and she would interrupt my phone conversations with clients to correct me without any anticipation, making the client uncomfortable because they could hear her on the other side of the line. In one instance, probably, my second month, I had made a mistake and she directly told me that her attorney does not like mistakes and that if I were to make one more, I would be loosing my job. Every single paralegal working for the other attorneys disliked her attitude and felt sorry for me. At first I did not understand why would everyone dislike her, but soon after, I was able to understand why. All in all, she made me feel aggravated and I felt, as my leader was not rooting for me but instead against me.

            The video by Dr. Richard Boyatzis (n.d.), “What is great leadership, ” does indeed provide a significant amount of feedback of what we, people, normally expect from our leaders. One important point he touches is “inspiring leadership through emotional intelligence” (Boyatzis, n.d.). It is known that, emotional intelligence is “the ability to recognize, assess and manage one's own emotions and the emotions of others” (Terziyan & Kaikova, 2015, para. 14). In other words, when a leader provides emotional intelligence skills to a team, he or she is capable of offering understanding to other’s behaviors. With such skills or domains, a company or group can face any challenge, as their leader can help them discern any problem they may encounter. Needless to say, this type of leader takes time to get to be a good leader. A leader with great set of skills is a learner and does not arrogantly tell his or her followers, he or she knows it all. Instead, good leadership comes with background experience because he or she has failed before, but know how to continue or when to backed down. More importantly, a good leader knows to be inspiring rather than a dictator.

References

Boyatzis, R. (n.d.). What is great leadership.  Case Western Reserve University.


Terziyan, V., & Kaikova, O. (2015). The 'magic square': A roadmap towards emotional business intelligence. Journal of Decision Systems, 24(3), 255-272. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com.ezproxy.libproxy.db.erau.edu/docview/1717303566?accountid=27203

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